So I put on a business suit this morning for an important meeting, and to my surprise, I was swimming in it. The suit is a size 24, I must wear a 20 right about now. I had to rig the pants to stay up with safety pins and wear heels so they weren't too long, (which they still were), but I pulled it off. That suit is going to need to be altered and stat! I won't go shopping for a new serious suit until I get down to shopping
in a normal sizes store - NO MORE SHOPPING AT LANE GIANT.
In February this suit was too tight to even button. I am shocked really. It wasn't until today that I REALLY noticed how much I have lost in my clothes. I weighed myself this week and I am still at 248 lbs., but I have lost more inches than pounds, especially around my waistline and hips.
I have been walking more and feeling more energy too. I feel like dancing. Like I want to go out and just dance my booty off somewhere all night, kinda dancing. I still have back pain, but I am hoping this will begin to lessen as I drop the weight.
My tummy is still sensitive. I can't really eat very much. I take a couple bites of chicken and salad and just wait to see how it feels. I try all kinds of things. I have been told that I will be able to tolerate some of the things I can't right now, eventually. But I can tell you what feels like crap when I eat it today.
My tiny tummy gets pissed off when I eat:
I am not motivated to stick with the Couch to 5K program yet. My back pain has been kicking my ass, so I am going slow. Doing more inner work than outer work. I had some serious breakthroughs. The more weight that melts off me, the more surprisingly nervous I am at the thought of dating. I want too, but I'm really shy about it. Obesity does serve an important service, or we would not have it. It's inside the uncomfortable feelings that we find out what those fat benefits are.
I think my diva blubber was partially keeping me safe from ever getting my heart broken again. It was nice not getting hound dogged by strangers. I hate being rejected and hate rejecting others EVEN MORE. When they stopped checking me out and asking me out, IT WAS A RELIEF.
People do regain weight after VSG surgery and I bet it's because they still haven't faced what they were protecting themselves from inside. Becoming smaller doesn't mean we become weaker or more vulnerable. Being depressed, fat and in pain was crumbling me to my knees, THAT WILL MAKE YOU VULNERABLE, and not in a good way. The benefits of being fat was a dichotomy of contradictions. It helped me and hindered me. I was never just accepting myself for who I was and where I was in my life. I was always trying to "Change" myself.
I finally just gave up and took a vacation from a lifetime of psychotic chronic dieting. I was hungry, feeling deprived, guilty and starving and overeating MY WHOLE LIFE. I was great at losing the weight, but keeping it off - NO ONE CAN SEEM TO DO THAT WHEN DIETING LONG TERM. Even today, I stress out when ever I swallow any food. This took a lifetime of conditioning.
When you are over 100 pounds overweight, you are freaked out and overwhelmed at the thought of how you got so big and how you could overcome such a big obstacle of losing so much weight, especially after failing so many times at keeping it off. IT WAS DEFEATING TO EVEN TRY ANYMORE.
Under the fat was a sense of powerlessness I was most afraid of in myself. The fear of confrontation and being forced to defend myself. I had to stop trying to control everything in my life AND LET IT ALL GO. I have solid bitch boundaries now, and I use them appropriately if needed.
My brain is like an Etch A Sketch that I keep shaking to clear out the old drawings. I am now drawing something entirely new and original. I think what makes me less afraid of being "A Target" for unwanted attention today is my age. I am seasoned, experienced and have been around the block a few times. I still have my Mo Jo Working, but I have passed my prime and I have made peace with this fact. It's surprisingly liberating and a comfortable place to be.
I had seen several people have great success with WLS. This was my last resort and I'm glad I did it. This VSG tool is working. THERE IS A WAY TO OVERCOME THIS. Everyday I am seeing and feeling the results. If I can do this, ANYONE CAN!
My sense of powerlessness is transforming into a sense of strength and balance. I'm not holding on to life as tight and it feels safe and much better this way. FREEDOM EQUALS SAFETY TO ME. The less I worry about, the better I feel -especially in my body. Fuck dieting. I now just eat what makes my tummy and my body feel good. I certainly know when I am full - I CAN'T OVEREAT. There is great comfort in that.
The first in a series of "Big turning points" for me to do this surgery was when I went to Great America on Halloween with a bunch of friends. I hadn't been on a roller coaster in over 10 years. When I got into the seat, the bar could not go down all the way enough to secure me in the seat for the ride. they asked me to step off the ride. All of my friends and everyone else just sat there looking at me. I was mortified.
It was when my heart started having arrhythmia trouble that my doctor recommended the weight loss surgery to help relive most all of my physical problems. I am very glad I made this decision. My goal is just to feel in balance and improve my heath and improve the quality of my life. Getting to my goal weight is going to take as long as it's going to take. This time, THE FAT IS STAYING OFF. There is hope.
In February this suit was too tight to even button. I am shocked really. It wasn't until today that I REALLY noticed how much I have lost in my clothes. I weighed myself this week and I am still at 248 lbs., but I have lost more inches than pounds, especially around my waistline and hips.
I have been walking more and feeling more energy too. I feel like dancing. Like I want to go out and just dance my booty off somewhere all night, kinda dancing. I still have back pain, but I am hoping this will begin to lessen as I drop the weight.
My tummy is still sensitive. I can't really eat very much. I take a couple bites of chicken and salad and just wait to see how it feels. I try all kinds of things. I have been told that I will be able to tolerate some of the things I can't right now, eventually. But I can tell you what feels like crap when I eat it today.
My tiny tummy gets pissed off when I eat:
- Potatoes of any kind, (even mashed.)
- Pasta noodles (but it's okay with rice noodles)
- Hard boiled or hard scrambled eggs (soft cooked eggs are okay)
- Rice
- Tomato sauce (it's okay with catsup)
- Sugar of any kind (especially cocktail mixers)
- Coffee (but I get my caffeine from my espresso protein shakes in the morning, not so tragic)
- Lemon, Lime and any citrus
- Garlic
- Salsa
- Raw onion
- Anything fried
- Vinegar
- Wine (Vodka it is okay with, but I'm not drinking much until I reach my goal)
- Curry (but Chipotle is okay)
- Pizza crust or crackers of any kind (but soft bread is okay)
- Carbonated anything (Uncomfortable instantly)
I am not motivated to stick with the Couch to 5K program yet. My back pain has been kicking my ass, so I am going slow. Doing more inner work than outer work. I had some serious breakthroughs. The more weight that melts off me, the more surprisingly nervous I am at the thought of dating. I want too, but I'm really shy about it. Obesity does serve an important service, or we would not have it. It's inside the uncomfortable feelings that we find out what those fat benefits are.
I think my diva blubber was partially keeping me safe from ever getting my heart broken again. It was nice not getting hound dogged by strangers. I hate being rejected and hate rejecting others EVEN MORE. When they stopped checking me out and asking me out, IT WAS A RELIEF.
People do regain weight after VSG surgery and I bet it's because they still haven't faced what they were protecting themselves from inside. Becoming smaller doesn't mean we become weaker or more vulnerable. Being depressed, fat and in pain was crumbling me to my knees, THAT WILL MAKE YOU VULNERABLE, and not in a good way. The benefits of being fat was a dichotomy of contradictions. It helped me and hindered me. I was never just accepting myself for who I was and where I was in my life. I was always trying to "Change" myself.
I finally just gave up and took a vacation from a lifetime of psychotic chronic dieting. I was hungry, feeling deprived, guilty and starving and overeating MY WHOLE LIFE. I was great at losing the weight, but keeping it off - NO ONE CAN SEEM TO DO THAT WHEN DIETING LONG TERM. Even today, I stress out when ever I swallow any food. This took a lifetime of conditioning.
When you are over 100 pounds overweight, you are freaked out and overwhelmed at the thought of how you got so big and how you could overcome such a big obstacle of losing so much weight, especially after failing so many times at keeping it off. IT WAS DEFEATING TO EVEN TRY ANYMORE.
Under the fat was a sense of powerlessness I was most afraid of in myself. The fear of confrontation and being forced to defend myself. I had to stop trying to control everything in my life AND LET IT ALL GO. I have solid bitch boundaries now, and I use them appropriately if needed.
My brain is like an Etch A Sketch that I keep shaking to clear out the old drawings. I am now drawing something entirely new and original. I think what makes me less afraid of being "A Target" for unwanted attention today is my age. I am seasoned, experienced and have been around the block a few times. I still have my Mo Jo Working, but I have passed my prime and I have made peace with this fact. It's surprisingly liberating and a comfortable place to be.
I had seen several people have great success with WLS. This was my last resort and I'm glad I did it. This VSG tool is working. THERE IS A WAY TO OVERCOME THIS. Everyday I am seeing and feeling the results. If I can do this, ANYONE CAN!
My sense of powerlessness is transforming into a sense of strength and balance. I'm not holding on to life as tight and it feels safe and much better this way. FREEDOM EQUALS SAFETY TO ME. The less I worry about, the better I feel -especially in my body. Fuck dieting. I now just eat what makes my tummy and my body feel good. I certainly know when I am full - I CAN'T OVEREAT. There is great comfort in that.
The Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: How to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle
Book and the AM I HUNGRY mindful eating course really helped
me understand what I was doing and why too.
The first in a series of "Big turning points" for me to do this surgery was when I went to Great America on Halloween with a bunch of friends. I hadn't been on a roller coaster in over 10 years. When I got into the seat, the bar could not go down all the way enough to secure me in the seat for the ride. they asked me to step off the ride. All of my friends and everyone else just sat there looking at me. I was mortified.
It was when my heart started having arrhythmia trouble that my doctor recommended the weight loss surgery to help relive most all of my physical problems. I am very glad I made this decision. My goal is just to feel in balance and improve my heath and improve the quality of my life. Getting to my goal weight is going to take as long as it's going to take. This time, THE FAT IS STAYING OFF. There is hope.
This VSG surgery was the best decision I have ever made.
THANKS FOR FOLLOWING ALONG.
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| I can't wait to feel the bar click into place the next time I get on a roller coaster. |
THAT WILL BE ONE
EXHILARATING AND AWESOME RIDE!
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